Was reading Xiu's blog that day i found the following to be encouraging, inspiring...
3 Stages of relationship :
"DEPENDENCE stage" - Honeymood period "INDEPENDENT stage" - Busy with own's agenda
"INTERDEPENDENT stage" - Ultimate Stage..
where you all learn and grow to depend on each other independent to an extend of being responsible of your own actions but yet interdependent on one another when it comes to decisions making and this is a very mature stage of love where mutual understanding sets in where 2 person no longer just depend on one another neither are they just busy with their own lives but they learn to be involved and busy with one another's life where 2 lives really becomes one 2 different lives 2 different callings 2 different visions but yet one destiny this is a stage all relationship should work towards
Indeed i want to work towards this stage of interdependent stage as we learn to be involved in one another's life.. not just abt my feeling.. it is not just abt giving in or taking all the times.. But there need to be time where communicate n plans r make.. for the relationship.. Communicate to understand wat each other is going thru..
Alot of time - we choose to assume.. Assuming that our partner will do this, think in this or that way.. when most of the time our assumption is always wrong.. Asking! Talking thru abt it! is so impt...
As Valentine approaches.. Time to do something for ur partner.. Something that is from ur heart will melts his or her.. I learnt something as i walk.. You can also take the 1st step/ move/ action.. Step OUt.. n dun just wait..
Let the Love keep on burning..
Burning with passion n love for Jesus always..
Joy @ 2:33 PM
MYSELF...
PROFILE,
Joy
God Chaser
26 Oct
Have a caring n loving family n Friend
n Dear
working and studying at PSB
Likes to watch Movies, Play with my niece n Nephew
Likes to just spend time contemplating.. hehe
Likes to hang out with friends (missing it)
CRAVES..
my want list
More of God's Anointing
A New Phone
Distinction for my course
Family Salvation
Cg growth
Nintendo Wii (Got it)
And More to come
